Ripon College Days

In light of the number of Resident Assistants who will be new to our residence halls next semester, we feel it is important for RAs to understand what their job really means to those they serve. We recognize being an RA is a difficult and often underappreciated position, and perhaps that stress has contributed to an atmosphere of tension.

RAs need to be more aware of their residents so they can diffuse conflict before it becomes unresolvable. Part of doing so has to do with the overall mentality and attitude of the RAs toward their residents. An RA's relationship with their residents is a delicate balance. It is difficult to be involved without being over-bearing, and this may be the most demanding aspect of their position. As an RA, one needs to be both a steadying hand and a solemn fist and to know when to apply the right brand of force. An RA can be an important presence for those who are struggling; but there is a difference between a force within, and a force over.

RAs need to be available and accessible for councel. College students in general experience rapid and great change over the course of their careers. In order for an RA to appreciate, enjoy and share in that growth, they need to be involved with their residents on a personal basis. This means communicating on a level where judgments are not passed.

This doesn't happen when RAs don't appreciate their residents. This doesn't happen when an RA believes themselves to be superior. This doesn't happen when an RA is critical of their residents.

Being in an authoritative position it is easy to forget the nature of the term resident assistant. The point of an RA is not to serve the Hall Director, or to serve the administration, but rather to serve their residents.

Doing so can prove very fruitful for both the resident and the RA. Those RAs who accept their residents as unique individuals who are capable of positively impacting the floor community as well as the Ripon community, are aware of the real benefits of their job. And then, and only then, is the resident-RA relationship truly reciprocal.

A number of RAs exemplify these qualities, and we appreciate their contribution to our community. A good RA combined with a cooperative and willing group of residents will forge bonds that sustain themselves throughout a college career and on into adult life.

To those RAs who will leave us for an overseas adventure, we thank you for your service and wish you the best. For the newcomers stepping in, we hope you take these words to heart, so that you and your residents can get the most from your relationship.

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